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What is the underlying principle of sexual addiction?
To sexually addict any woman, you must fulfill the requirements of any addiction — which is to satisfy a powerful, recurring need — and to satisfy it so well that no substitute will do.
You can easily see how this works when it comes to the more well-known addictions, such as drugs and alcohol. What any addictive drug essentially does is satisfy both a physical craving and a psychological craving. After awhile, the person becomes "hooked", i.e., dependent, on the drug, so that if the drug is withdrawn the person has painful withdrawal symptoms. As strong as the physical dependency on the drug may be, however, it is the psychological dependency that is hardest to kick. For example, a cigarette smoker is free of physical withdrawal symptoms after only about two weeks of quitting smoking, but the psychological craving to smoke usually continues for up to two years, or even indefinitely. We all know smokers who quit for many years but then went back when they were confronted with a particularly stressful crisis.
The principle of sexual addiction works in exactly the same way: the addictive "substance" (hopefully, you) satisfies a powerful, recurring need (your woman's need for sexual pleasure) — and satisfies it so well no substitute will do.
When a woman finds the man who can totally satisfy her in this way she becomes addicted to him — to his smell, his touch, his sight, his pleasuring. And like any other addiction, the more it satisfies a need, the stronger it grows.
The first principle of sexual addiction: Understanding female sexuality
In order to create the desired sexual attachment to you, you must deeply understand women's sexuality. The first and foremost thing you must understand is that there are profound sexual differences between men and women.
Male sexuality is, for the most part, genitally focused, i.e., it centers on the penis. Women's sexuality is much more diffused. While orgasm in women, as with men, centers in the genitals, their sexuality can encompass the entire body.
The most basic mistake most men make in their lovemaking — and the single thing that most separates them from the great and sought-after lovers — is that they project their own genitally-centered responses onto women, i.e, they assume that women are feeling the same things in the same way as they do. They don't! So the quick arousal, intercourse, orgasm, end-of-sex sequence that is normal and satisfying for a male is deadly for a women and guaranteed not to addict her to you.
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THE THREE MINDBLOWING TECHNIQUES THAT ARE THE CORNERSTONE OF THE SEXUAL ADDICTION PRINCIPLE
With these 3 basic teasing techniques, you can sexually addict a woman even with a single encounter!
Pleasure Technique #1: HOW TO MAKE HER TOTALLY READY FOR INTERCOURSE WITHOUT EVER GOING BELOW THE NECK
Can you imagine that kissing alone can make her totally ready for intercourse, without ever going below the neck?
Well, if you can't, you should. Just remember your youthful days of necking for hours. You left those sessions with "blue balls", as you and your buddies so quaintly called it. But how did she leave those sessions? You probably never thought about it, but you should. Even better, ask her. Because, despite the emphasis on male frustration, reinforced by the fact that females have had to be the ones to put a brake on the proceedings, the fact is that she was probably even more strung out than you.
You left these sessions with an aching erection. She left with an equally aching engorgement of her entire genital area, inside and out, as well as soaking wet panties.
In other words, when you stopped necking you were both in total physical readiness for intercourse.
There is no reason for this to change. If kissing could be such passionately exciting foreplay then, it still can now!
True, people tend to become blasé. The first kiss, the first touch of a breast, the first intercourse, are incomparably heady and memorable, less so each succeeding time. Nevertheless, kissing is still an elemental and powerful part of human sexuality. And you can learn to use it to excite your thirty, forty, or sixty-year-old woman as much as you did your sixteen-year-old sweetheart in the back seat of your father's Chevy.
This is the adult version of kissing-to-a-frenzy:
The key to sexually addicting a woman through kissing alone is your understanding that kissing mimics intercourse. Think of the man as the inserter and the woman as the receiver. Just as in intercourse, the man inserts his tongue — long and stiff like a penis — into the woman's mouth — wet and suctioning like a vagina.
This is true whether the woman is conscious of it or not. It doesn't matter whether she is. It is your consciousness of it that will give you the power of sexual addiction.
If you kiss her correctly, you will be giving her the oral equivalent of transcendent, ecstatic intercourse — and the knowledge that this is what actual intercourse will be like with you. You will implant this knowledge in her somatically, experientally, so that her body knows it beyond anything her mind can tell her. It will awaken desire in her so intense that she will become as impatient for intercourse as you were in the back of that car. But you will not give it to her. You will tease and torment her until she begs you for release. I will describe this step later. But right how, here is exactly how you are to apply the Kissing Technique:
1) Take your time.
2) Take your time.
3) Take your time.
Unfortunately, adults don't take enough time as they get accustomed to having sex, particularly with a familiar partner. They "short-cut" the steps that are so well-known and so well-grooved, so that kissing and foreplay, which were once pleasurable ends in themselves, get telescoped into a few minutes before the entree: intercourse.
Never do this. You are cheating both your woman and yourself of enormous pleasure.
To demonstrate this, merely think back to your necking days. You did it for hours, despite the frustrations it entailed. Why? Obviously, because it gave you enough pleasure to outweigh the frustrations.
It still can, with the added bonus that it no longer needs to end in frustration!
4) Your kissing session should completely mirror the cycle of lovemaking, from foreplay to intercourse to afterplay. Here's how this works:
Just as GOOD foreplay starts out gentle and teasing, then gradually works its way up to passionate and even violent, so does GOOD kissing. When you kiss her in this way, it is a powerful nonverbal signal that this is also the way you will make love to her. It is like your body is telling her, "I know just how you want to have sex and I know just how to give it to you." This is an irresistible turn-on to any woman who really wants good sex — which is every woman.
If you do it wrong, you are giving her just as clear a signal — that you are a poor lover. For example, some men kiss so hard that they crush a woman's mouth against her teeth. This only signals the woman that this is also the way he thrusts his penis in intercourse. Unfortunately, despite what the porn magazines and videos say, no woman is going to get much out of violent intercourse except a good cervical pounding, vaginal soreness — and very little sensation. So this kind of kissing is a big turn-off rather than a turn-on, except perhaps for seriously masochistic women.
Another common and ineffective kissing technique is to kiss in exactly the same way over and over — same pressure, same duration, same lip and tongue movements, etc. — with no variation. This only tells a woman that you are a rigid and unimaginative lover.
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There are other wrong ways to kiss, but you get the idea. Now, here is the right way to do it:
Stage One: Start kissing her gently and softly, barely brushing her lips with yours. Once again, take your time at this. It is the most important stage of kissing/lovemaking for a woman. Do not use your tongue, except to occasionally flick it very lightly on the outside of her lips to moisten them. Soon her lips (and yours) will seem to grow swollen and supersensitive (just like her genitals will when you do likewise to them). At this point she will want you to increase the pressure. Don't do it. Keep lightly kissing her lips, frequently pausing to brush your lips against her neck, her cheek, her ear. You may also lightly caress her with your hand above the shoulders only.
Stage Two: After you have thoroughly teased her in this way, you may gently increase your lip pressure and slightly insert the tip of your tongue into her mouth. Make light contact, flicking and teasing at the moist inside of her lips and the tip of her tongue. She will open her mouth wider, as if urging you to insert your tongue further. Do not do it. She will try to put her tongue into your mouth. Do not let her do this either. If she tries, pull away and go back to Stage One teasing. This will let her know that a) you are in control, which is in itself extremely exciting; and b) that if she tries to rush you, she will get even less than she wants. You might even want to make this explicit by whispering to her: "Take it easy, we'll get there in plenty of time," or, "Relax and let me take care of you."
Stage Three: By now you are both very excited, and absolutely nothing has taken place below the neck. (Incidentally, this is doubly exciting for her — not only because women build sexual excitement on a more gradual upward curve than men, but because it undoubtedly triggers her own sexual-discovery moments in the back seat of the car, with all their sweet torments.) Now you may begin deep kissing (the symbolic equivalent of intercourse). However, you must still take care to do this teasingly and sinuously: slip your tongue deeply into her mouth, but keep your lip pressure light. Consciously move your tongue as if mimicking the gliding, sensual motions of intercourse. Slide it in, around, and out, exploring every nook and cranny of her mouth. Let it writhe against her tongue. Then pull away and gently kiss her face for a while. Deeply kiss her again, this time letting her tongue slide into your mouth (mimicking woman-on-top position).
Now she will want more. She will try to kiss you harder. She will be breathing hard and gasping. Her hips will involuntarily move up and down. Do not respond — keep up your sensual tonguing. Do not touch her below the neck and do not allow her to touch you below the neck. This will tell her that you will not rush intercourse either, but take the time to slowly build to the utmost peak of arousal.
Stage Four: At last, when she is fully aroused, she is ready for the highest stage — the passionate explosion. Now your kissing can begin to mimic the final thrusting toward orgasm, when movements become faster, harder, and more intense. Kiss her hard. Let her kiss you hard. Let her give full vent to her excitement. Now you may caress her breasts and slide your hand down the curve of her body.
At this point, if you were to enter her, she would probably reward you with a rapid series of powerful orgasms. And all because of an "adolescent" necking session! But you are not going to enter her yet, no matter how she may beg.
Read the next technique to see what you
are going to do.
(This technique and much more in the complete guide.)
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